My girls left with their dad for Alaska yesterday morning. It’s funny how my feelings flip flop over this matter. I spend 95% of time with my girls and their dad about 5% as of lately. I crave a break when I’m with them, just wanting a few hours alone to run errands and go for a run. However, the moment they walk out my door I feel a huge sense of loss. I worry about them and find myself going over previous frustrations I’ve had with them hoping they realize how incredibly loved they are by me. This week long break is as good for them as it is me. They’ll be with all the Harris cousins, on a lake fishing and playing. I’m actually a little jealous and tried inviting myself on the trip. Like really, their dad and I could just ignore each other like we did the last couple years of marriage.:) If you follow me on Instagram @lisafharris you’ve seen and read plenty about my daughters. If not, here’s a little info on each of these beauties…
Avery | has a strong personality. She loves people. Avery is smart like her dad. She attracts really great friends and is a leader. She recently started to like boys. As in, even told the boy on Valentines Day that she liked him and he looked at her with a blank stare. Probably not what she hoped for. Avery loves the water, art, music. She knows the lyrics to any and every song on the radio. What I love most about my eldest daughter is her sense of who she is. She doesn’t pretend to know, she knows.
Poppy | is my free spirit. She loves the idea of being different from the rest. Poppy is as sweet as they come. She loves to dance and is obsessed with the Video Star app on her iPad. She recently started sharing a room with Goldie and reminds me daily that it’s ruining her life. Poppy is the kid you could hang with all day and feel like you’re out with your best girlfriend. She loves to love and if you cross her once, watch out.
Goldie | oh Gold. Where do we even start? I’ve never met a child with better one liners than Goldie. She makes me laugh all day long and makes her sisters crazy. She is actually incredibly shy around strangers. It takes her awhile to warm up to others but once she does she’s her true spunky self. Gold came into our family when I didn’t think I could handle one more stress and she ended up saving us. Heavenly Father truly knows what we need to be humbled and blesses us even in the hardest situations.
XXO
Lisa
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I loved this post and your honesty!! I am also a single mom, and I love it, but it can be challenging sometimes. Your girls are beautiful!
xx,
EE
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I love when you show emotion on your blog.. Life is real. I wish you wld put more outfits together frm Gap, Banana, Old Navy, and Target for us on smaller budgets..
I dedicate this afternoons post to you. 55 products under $50! Thanks for leaving a comment.
xxo
Lisa
This is the first time I’m reading your blog via Nichole Whiting’s post and I just wanted to tell you that your writing and how you express what you see in your kids is amazing. I love how you described each of their spirit in a way sometimes I can shift toward the negative. Thanks for focusing me toward the positive part of my twos little spirits!!
Oh, that is so kind to say. Thank you so for taking to the time to read lunch pails and comment.
xxo
Lisa
beautiful girls! love hearing your heart about your girls!
Love this blog and love seeing your girls on insta. Just wishing there was a blog full of the constant Gold funnies! Can’t wait until she starts her own blog someday :). Keep the up the great work.
Hi Lisa, I have relatable feelings on sharing time with my girls. I thought I was the only one who craved a little break and then became full of anxiety and guilt over struggles we encountered while worrying about them when away. Find peace in knowing girls have a remarkable way of sharing feelings and tuning into undertones of attitudes… My girls(16 & 9) come home full of appreciation and gratitude for the life we have built post divorce. Even though, I am the parent who enforces all the rules and repercussions in their life. I always listen to their feelings and do not react to the negative feed back infront of them. Nothing compares to the relationships of mom’s and children. Looks like your doing a great job. ♡ Sonia Preston
Oh thank you Sonia, sounds like you’re doing an incredible job as a mom. Big hugs, Lisa
Love this post! My parents got divorced when I was about 6 years old and although I was with my mom a ton, I am so thankful for our super super close relationship & I hold it close to my heart everyday even at my old age of 20 😉 You seem like an amazing mom! Xx Lexie
Wait, I love hearing children of divorce success stories! Thank you for sharing. You made my night!
xxo Lisa
I too have three little girls so I really enjoy seeing pictures of your girls. This post was so sweet. I hope your week away from them is a good one! I know you will be glad to see them soon.
So many of us in the three girls club. Thank you for your kind words!
xxo
Lisa
I know it must be hard to have them so far away. Try to enjoy the quiet time and do what feeds your soul, you so deserve it! I have been fortunate to be home with my two kiddos all summer. It has been great but I miss the alone time. As you know, it is no fun doing errands in the Arizona heat! Your week alone will fly by, recharge yourself. Thank you for sharing about your beautiful daughters!
It really is so great to take time for yourself. Sorry you’re dealing with the heat! Thank you!
xxo
Lisa
Love this!!! I follow on Instagram and am OBSESSED with the Goldie one-liner posts! You have three very special girls on your hands, and thank you so much for sharing them with us!
XOXO
Katie
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Glad you appreciate The Gold. Thank you!
xxo Lisa
This is the first time I have ever commented but I’m so in love with this blog! I follow along from a far in a small town in TN and I think what you have here is so beautiful and helpful. I decided to comment because you have shown that no matter what, there is going to be good days. There is hope and love and life moves on. Even when you think it isn’t. You have such beautiful girls and I know you are doing an amazing job. By letting us viewers in on your personal life a little at a time is so endearing and what we see is amazing. I admire your courage and your mothering skills. May Heavenly Father bless you so much in continuing to be an amazing mother and a wonderful person. We do not know each other but I’m rooting for great things!! Have a great week!
Thank you Tierra. I appreciate your kind words and support! Truly.
xxo Lisa
Thank you for sharing. I follow your insta and ofcourse the blog. And even though I don’t know you I know I know these three little girls are so blessed to call you theirs. You’re an inspiration for all us momma’s. I constantly find myself learning something from you as a mother from a far.
Amazing, wonderful women your raising. Kiddos to you………….
Thank you. Really so sweet of you to say such kind things.
xxo
Lisa